On a brisk November morning, Amana wakes in her childhood home on a bed shared with her two younger brothers and sister in her family's one room house. She can smell the morning dew on the grass outside and smiles, remembering her mother who told her, “if you wash your face with the fresh dew on the first day of each winter month you will always be youthful”. She has thought about this every cold morning since her mother passed away one year ago.
Yesterday, Amana learned that her father had arranged for her to marry one of his relatives. Amana’s father wanted to use this money to remarry and buy food for his other children. Sent to live with her husband’s family, Amana would also be one less mouth to feed. Thinking of this, her smile quickly fades. She is 13 years old.
She was prepared to bury her dream of becoming a doctor, as her ambitions no longer fit within the narrow confines of tradition and her father's expectations.
It wasn’t until she decided to walk into World Vision Afghanistan’s (WVA) street children counseling room that she discovered there was someone who could rescue her from a hopeless future. World Vision Afghanistan, through the Street Children Enrichment Centre, is committed to helping vulnerable kids like Amana change their stories for the better.
Through the eyes of an Afghan girl
The Department of Social Affairs (DoLSA) estimates that between 8,000 to 10,000 children work on the streets of Herat, routinely foregoing the simple pleasures of childhood to earn money to survive.
Amana was just 12 years old when she lost her mother to an unknown illness. Since then, she has been forced to fill the role of mother to her three younger siblings, along with tending to all of the chores of a housewife. Her mother’s illness was exacerbated by poverty.
Traditionally, Afghan girls are viewed by their fathers as dispensable property, with those from poor families the most vulnerable.
According to a 2016 UN report, 57 percent of Afghan girls are married before the age of 19. About 40 per cent of these marriages occur between the ages of 10-13; 32 percent at age 14; and around 27 percent at age 15.
Waiting for hope
Having no one to share her concern with, Amana remembered what a WVA counselor had once said in a group counseling session for children at the center: “If you have any problem, just come and talk to me.”
She finally decided she could no longer keep her fears to herself. “She started to cry before she [even began] talking,” Says Mr. Poya, the counselor at WVA’s Street Children’s Centre. “I let her cry to release her feelings of despair. When she felt better, she started telling her story.”
Later that day, Poya and Abdul Salam, a local religious leader, met with Amana’s father to discuss the consequences of early child and forced marriage, such as maternal and child health complications and domestic violence.
Abdul Salam approached child rights from an Islamic perspective. He explained to the father that, within the tradition, “Children have the right to be fed, clothed and protected until they reach adulthood…”
Being a religious man, Amana’s father was persuaded not to marry off Amana. He agreed instead to focus on looking for another job to supplement the family’s income.
World Vision’s Promise
Amana has been at WV’s Street Children Enrichment Centre for three years now; a few days ago she passed her school entrance exam and, because she has already learned how to read and write, can now start class three.
Amana is excited for what the future holds. “I want to be a doctor!” she says.
World Vision is close to signing a local level Memorandum of Understanding with the Herat Department of Religious Affairs, and another at the national level with the Ministry of Labour and Social Affairs to address the issue of early child and forced marriage.
In Afghanistan, child marriage is a traditional cultural practice, but it is also a social justice issue and a psychosocial and health issue. World Vision Afghanistan believes that every person is created in God’s image and each deserves life in all of its fullness.
World Vision Afghanistan’s campaign, it takes all of us to end child and forced marriage, aims to rescue the childhood of afghan girls. Its name reflects the fact no one person, group or organisation can solve this problem alone. All Afghans will need to work together as a society in order for justice to find its way into the lives of vulnerable Afghan girls.